A friend of mine told me about a friend of his that he wanted to introduce me to...and from what my friend was saying, he already talked to the guy and he was very interested and excited of meeting me too...and he even saw my picture. My friend has talked about introducing me to guys so many times but he never follows up...So i found the dude my friend wanted to introduce me to on facebook...and since my friend was saying on "how interested' the dude was in me (after seeing pictures of me and also was very interested in meeting me as a person), I invited him to be a friend on facebook...and as a conversation starter...I told him that a good friend of mine told me he had a heart of an angel and it will be cool to know more...To which the dude replied "i should not beleive the rumors"...I wasn't sure on how to take it(was it a joke? was he rejecting me?)...but i really felt embarassed...
So after 2 weeks of trying to get in touch with my friend about this situation, he finally replies to me that i should forget about the dude...because the dude is in some kinda sports and he needed to get of that "mode" for him to concentrate on a potential relationship and my friend said that he knew exactly when and how he would introduce me to the dude..In my friend's opinion, i appeared like a groupy. My friend said that for now, i should forget about the guy and move on... My friend added that if one day, we happen to all hangout together, then he might introduce me again.
The whole thing to me was weird...My friend specifically said he already talked to the guy, he even said to me once the guy asked him "How is my future wife"...Don't y'all think that if the guy was really interested despite my friend's lies, this feeble and futile matter would not turn him off and wanted to get to know me? Its not like i came unto him..or did i? Also, would meeting him change his mind of me since he has seen my pics and from my judgment, "I am not his type" ?
Thanks
That guy sounds hot and cold. Why would a guy who supposedly liked you, embarrass you like that? I would move on if I were you
you may never know the full truth about what's going on, but probably best to let it go... the guys had every chance to connect with you, and it seems he's not made the effort to get to know you better, even after you adding him on facebook... of course the problem isn't with your friends lies, but with the guy himself, for whatever reason, shallow, unjustified or real that he changed is mind, there's nothing you can or should do about it... and if he ever un-changes his mind, then he should be the one to come to you!
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