I am thinking of giving her a note and going back to class.(a school counsolor) Then flipping her off. Any other ideas?
I think you should feel very fortunate to have a counselor. Many people would like one and cannot afford one.
Here is how I would handle it.
Tell the counselor that you are uncomfortable with her and find it very unpleasant being in the room with her. You can tell her something that may sound offense if worded one way and mature on your part if worded another way.
Since you are considering sending her a note and uncomfortable telling things to her face; she may be able to help you with learning to be a little more assertive and less evasive when problems arise.
I think the key to this situation is choosing your words wisely.
humm no wonder your parents got you a counselor.
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You probably do not like why you have to see her, and not just dislike her as a person.
Learn the difference, and that will help you grow up, which is defiantly needed in your case by reading your attitude.
It's perfectly fine to tell your counselor that you don't like her. Her job is to help you with your feelings, so telling her exactly how you feel will be good for the both of you. You don't have to be a snark about it, though, just be honest.
I definitely did that as a teen, too. I went through a "punk" phase and my parents thought I was crazy, so they sent me to a shrink. Of course I hated it, but I think explaining to the counselor how I hated being there actually helped.
Try it out without the rude gestures.
Tell her that you do not like her and want someone else.
The most common mistake people make when going to therapists is that they will just sit there and continue sessions when they don't like the person sitting across the desk. You'd be surprised at how many people attending therapy aren't aware that therapists should be "interviewed" and basically sized up as professionals before the therapy begins.
If you don't cotton to the therapist, tell your parents that you need to try a different professional. There's a chance thst your therapist might not specialize in what you need to to talk about.
Don't hesitate if you feel this therapist is inadequate to seek another professional. .
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My parents got me a counsolor and I don't want to be rude by telling her I don't like her. What do I do?